I recently separated with my boyfriend of very nearly 3 years. We’d a phenomenal relationship. He had been the very first man we fell deeply in love with. He had been my friend that is best and fan. We had talked in regards to the future together with great relationships with each other’s families and buddies.
Now, the issue. Recently I learned which he was in fact answering sex posts/ads online. Whenever I confronted him about this, he instantly confessed and apologized abundantly. He cried and said he’s therefore ashamed of himself. He explained so it’s a intimate issue/addiction that he’s had for years – also before he met me. He swore he had only exchanged messages that he never actually met up and did anything physical with anybody. He said he’d get to counseling to obtain assistance. He asked me personally if i possibly could believe it is in my own heart to keep with him and provide him the opportunity to fix himself and start to become a significantly better guy. He stated he understands I deserve better.
Perthereforenally I think so betrayed, sad and annoyed.
But element of me personally additionally believes every thing he explained, since it’s in accordance with their character. He’d for ages been truthful beside me, even though we discussed hard topics.
I’m 25 yrs old and I’m appealing, smart, funny, etc., so I’m certain another person can be found by me in the future. The issue is, we don’t determine if I would like to. Is my ex-boyfriend “the one”? I’m perhaps maybe not the kind of one who magically “knows” or dreams intensely about marriage, but being with him made me begin taking into consideration the chance for wedding. Does he have character that is great make me personally pleased and assist me to be a far better individual? 100%. Continue reading