Hey Emily! I’m a girl that is 20-year-old England. In so far as I understand, i am entirely right as well as in love with my long-lasting boyfriend. (OK, there clearly was one time for me. )Here’s the thing: When I masturbate (and even sometimes when my boyfriend is going down on me), I think about girls having sex with girls that I hooked up with a girl, but I decided it’s just not. Mainly, we imagine circumstances where a lady is having lesbian sex for the very first time. Have always been I normal?! Have always been we even right? You will find simply no presssing difficulties with my boyfriend and we really don’t think I’m gay. Have always been I possibly bisexual? Have always been I alone? Thanks, Bi-Curious Britney in Britain
I’m therefore happy I was written by you, Britney. They are the sorts of concerns which come up for a great deal of individuals, but they’re usually too embarrassed to share it. They stress that possibly they’re confused or in denial about their sex. But right here’s the facts: not just have you been not by yourself, you may be really in great company.
It really is “normal” (also with their boyfriend or husband though I dislike that word, especially when it comes to sex), healthy, and extremely common for women to fantasize about other women during masturbation and during sex—even when they’re! And simply since you imagine two (or even more) ladies getting down does not indicate that you would like to be with females. Hey, you’ve really already attempted it, which means you know this.
Here’s just exactly what it will suggest: you have got a healthier and imagination that is active do you know what turns you in. Healthy for you.
I do believe it is actually beneficial to think of sex being a range, instead of a state that is fixed. Continue reading